November 16, 2008

Do I have to do this alone?

by Darren Warmuth

Finding a support system that works for you is crucial in becoming a non-smoker. It needn’t be a lonely, isolated journey which you take by yourself. Whether it be via an online forum, local church group, or through family and friends (excercise caution here), the key is to find people to help you in times of strife.

One of the most available tools is an online support group for those who do not have time to locate ‘real’ people. Through the online groups, you can reach out and connect with others who are striving to quit or those who have already quit. Nothing helps you get through cravings and challenges like seeing that other people have or are experiencing the exact same things you are.

Many of the message boards have different sections pertaining to the process of beginning to quit. Look for sections that pertain to what your going through, oftentimes they will have sections on the board that will coincide with what you are going through on any particular day. It is very comforting to see that others are going through the very same thing you are, and often the advice the other nonsmokers have posted is very helpful when you’re facing the same thing.

Enlisting the support of family and friends, in most cases can be very helpful. One of the only drawbacks to this would be, that sometimes family and friends think that they are being supportive when in actuality by them reminding you over and over not to smoke they can actually be pushing you towards a relapse.

Many family members and friends mean well and think they’re being encouraging by doing this, when you’re going through withdrawal symptoms and are naturally more agitated, this can be detrimental to your success. Sometimes just discussing this with them, before your quit day, can help nip it in the bud and make it a smoother transition.

Another option that a lot of people have found very helpful, is finding a local smoking cessation group. Often these group meetings may be held in a local hospital, at a library, or sometimes they meet at a church. Often you can find these meetings offered for free, or at the very least low cost in most cases.

Usually lasting about an hour or so, local support groups will give you the opportunity (as with online forums) to speak with others in the same situation as you. One of the huge benefits of course it the personal contacts you will make which could develop into quitting buddies. Having a buddy to assist you can be a great ally in remaining a non-smoker.

Although some methods of support are better than others, the important thing is that you have some to begin with - before you quit smoking. For without the support, quitting smoking is going to be one of the hardest tasks you are ever going to do. No sense doing it alone.

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